life as a single man

So I am single again - I think you all know by now. It was my choice and so I cannot complain. I just wish I did not have to go through the whole process of rejecting advances and say no to the usual suspects who could not wait for me to be single again.

Two guys especially...boy are just driving me insane with their requests for coffees masked under the pretense of wanting to be my friends. I really don't have it in me to confront them and yet I know that I wished they left me alone. I have told one that I am seeing someone already to stop his requests - I hope he gets it. The other one is more complicated - the courtship is way more subtle and he really is a good guy...just I don't know why me when he knows that my type of guy is completely different. I guess I will match his care with a good dose of tact and humor. Eventually I will be dating again, so I guess he will get it then.